Relationships today, can feel more complicated than ever before. And we expect much more from them. Gone are the old standards set by our parents and grandparents. There can be navigation needed around gender, sexuality and what roles each partner play. The definition of a relationship is broader than ever before.

All relationships are an endless ‘dance’ of harmony, disharmony and repair. Except many relationships are in an endless loop of harmony and disharmony, without repair. We are not taught relationship skills. We are not taught how to love healthily. We are not taught the skills that would enable us to build better relationships – skills that are both individual and joint.

Our whole lives we are told that “relationships need work”, yet no one ever tells us what that work is. Getting the relationship that we want means doing things differently.

Many people come to coaching when things feel close to breaking point, and who have often been struggling for a long time. Some face uncertainty for the relationships future. And there are those who are maybe considering separation and need help navigating through it.

Coaching isn’t only for relationships in crisis. Those that are in a stable, secure relationship can also benefit from sessions as a way to strengthen and deepen the connection – encouraging ongoing growth.

Some of the issues that couples present at the clinic include :

Misunderstandings
Communication problems
Mistrust
Tension arising from differences (opinions, preferences, priorities)
Feelings of resentment, anger or anxiety
Loss of connection
Lack of intimacy
Sexual concerns or dissatisfaction
Infidelity
Feeling unsafe
Repeated arguments
Difficulties with other family members

Inviting couples into the clinic, enables me to offer joint hypnotherapy sessions. This is a unique offering from me and helps couples, amongst other benefits, to reignite positive experiences, facilitate emotional breakthroughs, celebrate positive progress and embed new suggestions. Clients report that these sessions are not only a pleasant experience but pivotal in their relationships progress. 

“ I offer a safe, confidential and empathetic environment where you can discuss your relationship openly and without judgement. I aim to help you understand the problems and issues that you face and equip you to have the relationship that you want.

Session structure is flexible but benefits are reported when each person presents for an individual session initially – then brought together in following sessions as a couple. Personal development, as well as couple development is encouraged.

Whether you work with me as an individual or a couple, sessions are confidential and without judgement. I am trained in many fields of therapy and employ a wide variety of skills in every session to help”